Marrieds

#RomanticHugs..

So as we hug..
Adjust  according to your wife’s/husbands size and height.

Calm alittle down expecially if you’re taller..
You remain up high, the person will miss the romantic bit of it as he/she won’t climb you.

Infact you at a certain point make them feel lazy on hugging you.
Do the needful and simplify life for each other藍

Marriage is beautiful殺殺殺

Church boys…
Church gals…
Truthfully If you have been praying, The Lord will automatically lead and guide your relationship life.

So once upon a time in my olden days when I was still hawt…. 👯🏽‍♀️
Okay just before I met my now husband😊

I happened to be in this relationship with a friend..
We were dating to be specific.
We both were directly in ministry in our different churches.

So one time the relationship ceased to be as vibrant as it used to be.
I couldn’t wait longer to host a press conference of 2.

So in our press conference I inquired on if there’s something we need to work out to get back the relationship to the former nice communication corner.

The feedback I got was Just nice.
He says..
Well truth is that God has spoken to me about this relationship..
Yes I will marry someone called Peace but not you.

Iam like otyo!
So have you found that peace yet?
He’s like NO!
Iam like🙄
It is well.

Thank you for talking to me.
Thank you for your time always and the things you have taught me in this relationship.
And I want you to know that I wish you the best..

He also appreciated me for all the attributions in the relationship and we closed the meeting.
We hugged and left.

Kakati..
Truthfully he wasn’t in any relationship and I too wasn’t in any other besides ours by then.

It’s later after this one Apparently ayear later that he saw someone may be.
Personally it took me all the 2 and ahalf years getting busy with other things not relationships at all.

Meanwhile we kept in touch and would always meet up on ministry grounds.
There was no reason for us to become rivals anyway.

2 and ahalf years later I met my husband .
This my friend came gave me a wedding financial contribution and said..
Iam sorry it’s smaller but this is what I can afford as of now to atleast say thank you for the positive attributions in our former relationship.
I felt appreciated and received it with so much Love.
I got married.

Afew months later after our wedding in the same year,
This my friend also got engaged en married with someone and good news was her name was PEACE.

Wow..
I just felt nice for him..
I felt God had done things his own way.

How could we even get married in the same year to our different people..???
What a mystery!!!

Well..
There’s no need to get mad over an ending relationship.
It’s possible that you’re not meant for each other.

Just allow and begin the new year with a brand new start.

Merry Christmas singles.#MarriageInsights

Tue/05/05/2020

Now!
After some people have known about your husbands unfaithfulness in marriage,

Quite a number of them will advise you to pack out. But that’s not me!

Yes you could be having the same thoughts too but see …
Packing out won’t better anything at all apart from earning you the title “Ex Wife”

Sister you can do better than this.

As you also plan on bettering yourself in one way or the other.
Let the strongest power of positivity in a woman prevail in you.

Learn to pray number one for yourself before beginning to fast for your husband who is out there having a blast.

You need strength to walk through this first.

Blind can’t lead the blind.
How will you pray for your husbands deliverance while your also raging with fury, bitterness and unforgiveness?

Many wives focus on praying for these men and forget themselves.
As you seek counsel, seek for what will help you break through first .

#MarriageInsights

Mon/04/05/2020

Well..
Soon after acknowledging that he is cheating in this marriage, There’s a possibility for him to begin throwing tantrums and blaming you for his actions even when you have no hand in it.

Be aware of that.

Yes!

In that case you will develop an urge to chase after him and his girls.

But my sister see..
Chasing after an adulterous husband every where and whoever he is moving around with is like chasing wind.

Don’t waste energy on those girls.

Being a wife is so valuable and you always deserve much more than better self love right from your very own self.

These girls usually have nothing much to loose.
Not even the man because your husband is a visitor to them as well.

But you have alot…

Therefore..
Instead of chasing air accept that you have an unfaithful husband first; then focus on yourself, marriage at large and the children as you Pray to God for his deliverance .

Stay positive for your very own sake!
You atleast need to stay safe, healthy, stress free  and sober for your lovely children. 

#MarriageInsights

Hey!

It’s a new week..

Let’s share abit about this too. We are in days where adulterous ways and cheating in marriage seems trendy and okay yet not right at all.

When husbands cheat, many are the times that wives take it upon their heads carrying the cross that they are the reason to why the man has cheated.

But lady see.. Adultery is a personal choice that people make and intentionally choose to misbehave with their bodies.

You do not have to blame and crucify yourself for your husbands adulterous ways especially if you surely have no hand in it.

#MarriageInsights

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton